6 Ways to Boost Self-Esteem
Learn how to increase your self-confidence with these tips.
What is self-esteem?
Self-esteem is an important concept to understand, as it affects how we think about ourselves and how we interact with others. Having high self-esteem means that we’re confident in our abilities and skills and that we feel good about ourselves. Low self-esteem, on the other hand, can lead to feelings of insecurity and self-doubt. It’s important to remember that everyone has both strengths and weaknesses and that having healthy self-esteem means that we can learn to accept and appreciate ourselves for who we are. Self-esteem is something that can be improved over time with the right kind of support and encouragement.
What is self-concept?
Understanding how self-concept and self-esteem are related is an important part of developing a healthy sense of self. Self-concept is the way a person perceives themselves and their qualities, including physical characteristics, skills, roles, and more. It’s a person's idea of who they are and how they view themselves. Self-esteem is the level of value or worth a person assigns to their self-concept, which can be positive or negative. For example, someone with high self-esteem may feel confident in their abilities and value themselves highly, while someone with low self-esteem may feel inadequate and devalue themselves.
Self-esteem is subjective
Self-esteem is an individual's subjective measure of self-worth, which is determined by how they perceive themselves in relation to their own standards and goals. It can be affected by both external and internal factors, such as how a person is treated by others, their successes, their values, and their self-concept. For instance, if someone has a self-concept that they’re overweight and they hold the belief that they need to lose weight, it’s likely that their self-esteem will be low. However, if they believe that they’re perfect the way they are, then it’s likely that their self-esteem will be high. It’s important to remember that we can choose our beliefs and that these beliefs can have a positive effect on our self-esteem. By focusing on positive beliefs, we can help to increase our self-esteem and our overall emotional well-being.
Many factors impact self-esteem
Physical appearance and body image can have a significant impact on self-esteem. Low self-esteem in these areas can lead to feelings of low self-worth and can have long-term effects on mental and emotional health. The beliefs of others can have a powerful impact on our self-esteem. Positive feedback from people in our lives, such as friends, family, and peers, as well as positive messages from society can help to reinforce positive beliefs about ourselves and our qualities. This feedback can lead to increased self-confidence and improved self-esteem.
Negative feedback from others can lead to lower self-esteem, but it’s important to remember that it’s not necessarily a reflection of your worth as a person or your value. Instead, it’s important to recognize the feedback as a learning opportunity and to focus on what can be done to improve and grow. It’s also helpful to seek out positive feedback from those you trust and to focus on building relationships with people who can offer constructive criticism. Ultimately, it’s important to remember that you’re enough and that negative feedback does not define you.
Higher levels of self-esteem have a positive impact on mental health. Research has shown that lower levels of self-esteem can be associated with mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts. Therefore, it’s important to work to increase our self-esteem levels and to identify and address any underlying causes of low self-esteem. There are many strategies we can employ to do this, such as improving our body image, setting realistic goals, and engaging in activities that make us feel good about ourselves. It’s also important to practice self-compassion and to reach out for help if necessary. All of these things can help us to increase our self-esteem and overall mental health.
Signs of low self-esteem
Generally, people with low self-esteem may experience feelings of insecurity, self-doubt, helplessness, worthlessness, and a sense of inferiority. They may also often have negative thoughts and feelings about themselves, as well as difficulty making decisions, feeling uncomfortable in social situations, and avoiding activities they once enjoyed. If left unaddressed, low self-esteem can have serious, long-term consequences, such as anxiety, depression, and difficulty in relationships.
It's natural to experience fluctuations in self-esteem over time due to life events, experiences, and changes in beliefs. Low self-esteem can be experienced in all aspects of life, or it can be specific to certain areas. It’s important to be aware of how low self-esteem can affect all areas of life and to take steps to address any negative patterns.
How to increase self-esteem
Self-esteem can fluctuate depending on a variety of factors, such as life events or the environment. Working with a mental health professional or a life coach can be an excellent way to work through issues that can be causing a decrease in self-esteem. Additionally, some things can be done on your own to help increase self-esteem, such as creating a daily affirmations ritual, focusing on self-care, and engaging in activities that bring you joy. It’s also important to focus on your strengths and give yourself credit for your successes and accomplishments.
Here are some ways to boost self-esteem:
Start with positive self-talk
Instead of focusing on the negative, practice recognizing and appreciating your unique qualities and strengths. Remember that you’re enough! Work on ways to accept yourself while not comparing yourself to others.
Spend time with people you love
Spend time with positive people who build you up and help you to feel good about yourself.
Practice self-care
Prioritize your mental and emotional health by taking time for yourself each day to relax and practice self-care.
Celebrate your accomplishments
Set realistic goals and celebrate your successes, no matter how small.
Express yourself creatively
Take up a hobby or activity that you enjoy and that helps you feel proud of yourself.
Generate positive thoughts and concepts
Challenge your negative thinking by questioning your thoughts and replacing them with positive ones. You can use a journal to track your progress.
Here is a free digital download to help you increase your self-esteem: Building Self-Esteem Journal